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For simpler gowns, statement earrings or a delicate necklace add interest

Sultry side slits, detachable trains and deep plunge necklines will help to flatter your figure, make the most of your curves and enhance the playful parts of your personality

The closer to the brown/black dichotomy that rules formal and traditional shoe colours, the better, for smart dress

The open back gives off an airy feel and can be dressed up for the actual graduation with heels and jewelry, and down with some simple sandals for after

I am leaning towards no pads but the top layer of lace drapes very differently without them, hence the hesitation